Precious moments

In moments of clarity we recognize God's goodness in people and events

By Sr. Yolanda Cadavos, O.L.M.
May/June 2008

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Life in mission is a constant learning experience when one is fully present and the senses are attuned. One of these moments occurred when Sr. Pauline Doherty and Sr. Mary Hughes left their beloved Brazil after 42 years. Their presence is greatly missed. Their friends in Bela Vista ask for news and continue to share stories of the Sisters’ goodness and generosity. One little girl came to our door shyly handing me a letter to be sent to Pauline and Mary. Even the birds rejoice as they drink and bathe in Pauline’s improvised birdbath.

Sr. Yolanda Cadavos visits with Maiara and her daughter Andresa. The picture was taken by Suzana Barbosa who visited in Brazil, spending time with children in urban poor areas.

I experienced another moment of clarity when I was invited to participate in a workshop for the Pastoral da Criança, the pastoral work with children in our area. I went with the idea of supporting the women and men volunteers. However, listening and participating in the activities inspired and challenged me to do more. Now I visit with struggling families on a regular basis, which helps to create a bond of trust. This also allows me to support their efforts to provide healthy growth and development for those children under six years of age.

My visits have shown me a different scene—a scene of simplicity, of spontaneity and of warm welcome. At times, I become a recipient of smiles and hugs, while at other times, I sense their fear upon seeing my face, which is different from theirs. This is a humbling experience.

Seeing the reality of those who are living with almost nothing and knowing that there are others living in extravagant luxury, makes me aware of the great inequalities that exist in our unjust world. It helps me to pause and reflect on what keeps these families’ hopes alive. I sense that there is more here than the eye can see—the people’s resilience, their sense of alegria (joy), their zest for life despite their difficult lives. This is a source of strength for me, and gives me an awareness of what is important.

A scene that remains in my memory like a photograph is of a mother and her four-month-old baby, rocking together in an old rede (net hammock) in a bare room. Seeing their love within such starkness, filled me with energy and grace in the sacredness of that moment. These are precious moments of recognizing God’s presence.

A neighbour, Albanisa, once said, “We are blessed by your presence.” I would add, we are truly blessed to be welcomed and able to walk with the Brazilian people. My heart is filled with gratitude and joy for the privilege of sharing life with the Brazilian people.

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