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The Golden Rule\u2013A Basis for Morality and Ethics<\/h2>\n

Compiled by Brant Abrahamson and Fred Smith<\/h3>\n

Table of Contents<\/b><\/p>\n

1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Introduction<\/a>
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The Golden Rule as a standard for moral\/ethical conduct<\/a>
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A history of Golden Rule ethics<\/a>
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When the Rule became the “Golden” Rule<\/a>
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Using the Golden Rule in difficult situations<\/a>
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Questions and projects<\/a>
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Multiple-choice questions<\/a>
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Addenda\u2013more discussion questions<\/a>
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Permission to reproduce this electronic document<\/a>
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Print versions of this document<\/a>
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About the authors<\/a><\/p>\n

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Introduction<\/h2>\n

It is likely that the most basic everyday guideline for human behavior is to treat people as you would want to be treated if you were in the other’s position<\/b>. In the United States, this guideline has been known as the “Golden Rule” since the 1800s.<\/p>\n

Many human troubles, conflicts and tragedies involve situations in which people could have acted according to the Golden Rule but, to their sorrow, they did not. Cultural examples of this in American history include the treatment of African-Americans, Native Americans, other minority groups, laborers and women. Most people can think of personal situations that would have been less stressful if the Golden Rule had been used.<\/p>\n

The material in this document conveys the universality of the Golden Rule. The presentation here was developed primarily for high school juniors and seniors (ages 16 to 18) to demonstrate that the Golden Rule is more than a behavioral guide for small children. However, many young people will be able to use it effectively prior to their last years of high school depending on their reading ability. Any young person who understands the words being used in this document can profit from this lesson plan.<\/p>\n

Moreover, this curriculum has relevance beyond the realm of public, religious and private schools. Sunday school teachers, home schooling parents, scout leaders, and other youth educators will find it useful (in whole or in part). The content of this lesson plan can also be utilized as a basis for constructing age-appropriate lessons.<\/p>\n

The authors of this document hope that the instructors themselves will be inspired as they teach young people the joys of making the Golden Rule a lifelong moral standard.<\/p>\n

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The Golden Rule as a standard for moral\/ethical conduct<\/h2>\n

In a very real sense, the Golden Rule provides us with the most universal standard of behavior that we have. One can find variations of the Golden Rule in ancient writings from around the world. There are good reasons for the prevalence of the Rule across history.<\/p>\n

Consider the social nature of human living. We survive by living in groups and helping each other. Since people in a group are mutually interdependent, individuals are likely to treat others as they would want to be treated themselves. Otherwise, sooner or later the group will self-destruct or break up. That is to say, some sort of reciprocity within a group is an aspect of human behavior that is necessary for long-term survival.<\/p>\n

The earliest surviving written record of a Golden Rule statement goes back about 4,000 years\u2013to the ancient Egyptian civilization. However, this kind of behavioral ideal would have been a human understanding long before that time, and it remains so today.<\/p>\n

Generations of children have been morally uplifted by the easily-remembered saying, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” In North America, they learned the Golden Rule from old school texts such as McGuffey’s Eclectic Readers<\/i>. In addition, the saying has been printed on millions of school rulers and pencils. As in the past, parents today provide their children with moral instruction by repeating the Golden Rule and by using variations such as these:<\/p>\n

“You should treat others the way you want to be treated.”
\n“If you do that, your brother may try to do the same thing to you.”
\n“Help your sister because sometime you’ll need help too.”
\n“If you don’t want her to behave that way, why are you behaving that way?”<\/b><\/p>\n

ALTRUISM<\/b><\/p>\n

There is a self-interest and self-preservation element in the Golden Rule, as there is in most things that people do; but that’s not the only reason that the Rule is commonly followed. Altruism is also a human trait. Altruism means that people care about others’ well-being even when there’s no possibility of a return favor. They simply feel good when helping others. Think of relatives who take in a child if its parents have been killed. Think of people around the world who have aided the Asian tsunami victims and those who have suffered from hurricanes and other natural disasters.<\/p>\n

The altruistic frame of mind that is fostered is significant\u2013it shifts thinking from oneself to the welfare of others. Instead of thinking “what’s in it for me,” Golden Rule-minded people consider other peoples’ needs and desires\u2013how other people will benefit (or at least not be hurt) by what one does. Such acts can be their own reward; they make people feel good about themselves\u2013finding joy in doing things that make the lives of others a bit more pleasant.<\/p>\n

Moreover, Golden Rule thinking expands as our group identifications expand. Compared to previous ages, we have larger numbers of “others” with whom we now identify. At one time group loyalty\u2013a sense of belonging\u2013did not go much beyond the family, the clan, the band or one’s tribe. “Outsiders” were not to be trusted.<\/p>\n

Today we use “we\/our” terms for huge groups, most of whose members are not personally known to us. For example, the vast majority of Americans are patriotic and regard the millions of other Americans as a part of “we\/us”. And for many Americans, their loyalties extend far beyond the country’s borders. There are no outward limits to “we\/our” feelings!<\/p>\n

UN DECLARATION OF HUMAN RIGHTS<\/b><\/p>\n

The Golden Rule\u2013treating others as you would want to be treated if you were in their situation\u2013implies a general human equality, an ideal that has slowly grown to be verbally honored around the world. The United Nations’ 1948Universal Declaration of Human Rights<\/i> provides an example. Its provisions emphasize the “dignity and worth of the human person and in the equal rights of men and women…without any limitation due to race, nationality or religion.”<\/p>\n

The Declaration further states that no one is to “be subject to torture or to cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment.” Governments are to be based upon “the will of the people…expressed in…elections” in which there is equal suffrage and secret votes. All children are to have “the right to education [that’s] directed to the full development of the human personality.”<\/p>\n

We are far from realizing these goals, but there are reasons to be hopeful. That such a “Declaration” exists is an achievement, and actual progress is being made. Slavery still exists, but it is being challenged. Despite problems, the number of democratic governments in the world has increased. In many societies, women now have a larger measure of economic and political power than in past times. Young people are raised more humanely than in previous centuries; girls’ prospects for fully developed lives have greatly improved.<\/p>\n

The morality of the Golden Rule and altruism\u2013considering the well being of others as well as our own\u2013is a part of human nature. It is found worldwide and in all enduring cultures. One’s aspiration to live the Golden Rule needs nourishment, but it’s not dependent upon one being a member of this or that particular group, religion, or cultural tradition.<\/p>\n

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A history of Golden Rule ethics<\/h2>\n

The term “Golden Rule” and the various wordings of the Golden Rule familiar to most Americans are a relatively recent historical phenomenon, emerging in the 1800s. But the basic idea of the Rule is ancient\u2013variations of the Golden Rule are found across history and in societies around the world.<\/p>\n

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ANCIENT EGYPT<\/b>
\nThe oldest written record of a recognizable Golden Rule comes from Egypt around 4,000 years ago (2000 BCE). One translation reads:
\n“Do for one who may do for you, that you may cause him thus to do.”<\/b> (R. B. Parkinson, The Tale of the Eloquent Peasant<\/i>, Griffith Institute, Oxford, pp. 109-110)<\/p>\n

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ANCIENT GREECE<\/b>
\nGolden Rule-like statements are found in ancient Greek literature. In the 700s BCE, Homer wrote:
\n“I will be as careful for you as I should be for myself in the same need.”<\/b> (The Odyssey<\/i>, bk. 5, vv. 184-91)<\/p>\n

Herodotus, writing in the 400s BCE, proclaimed:
\n“…what I condemn in another I will, if I may, avoid myself.”<\/b> (The Histories<\/i>, bk. III, ch. 142)<\/p>\n

Plato came close to the Golden Rule in The Laws<\/i>\u2013when discussing property ownership, he wrote:
\n“…may I be of a sound mind, and do to others as I would that they should do to me.”<\/b> (The Laws, Book 11, No. 913 in The Dialogues of Plato<\/i>, 1952, Chicago, Encyclopedia Britannica’s Great Books Series<\/i>, p. 771)<\/p>\n

Philosophy professor, Jeffrey Wattles, has written an excellent book on the Golden Rule. In his book entitled The Golden Rule<\/i>, Wattles maintains that Isocrates, a contemporary of Plato, was responsible for the “burst of golden rule thinking that entered…Greek culture” in the fourth century BCE. (Jeffrey Wattles, The Golden Rule<\/i>, 1996, Oxford University Press, p. 27) Isocrates was a philosopher who was very interested in education and like Socrates before him, he established an academy in Athens. In his To Nicocles<\/i> letter, he advised a person:
\n“Conduct yourself toward your parents as you would have your children conduct themselves toward you.”<\/b><\/p>\n

In Aegineticus<\/i>, Isocrates used these words in advising the jurors in a court case:
\n“give a just verdict, and prove yourselves to be for me such judges as you would want to have for yourselves.”<\/b> (Wattles, p. 31)<\/p>\n

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EAST AND SOUTH ASIA<\/b>
\nGolden Rule expressions can be found in the religious and non-religious literature of East and South Asia.<\/p>\n

Confucius is a European way of saying K’ung Fu-tze, or “Master K’ung.”<\/p>\n

Confucius lived in the 500s BCE and his secular philosophy was put into writing by his disciples after he died. These writings include:
\n“Do not do to others what you would not want others to do to you.”<\/b> (Analects 15:23)<\/i>
\n“Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire.”<\/b> (Doctrine of the Mean 13:3)
\n“Try your best to treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself.”<\/b> (Mencius VII A 4)<\/i><\/p>\n

Taoism developed alongside Confucianism in China and includes this instruction: “Regard your neighbor’s gain as your own gain, and your neighbor’s loss as your own loss.”<\/b> (T’ai Shang Kan Ying P’ien, 213-21)<\/i><\/p>\n

Hinduism is the oldest religion in South Asia, going back more than 3,000 years. Jainism is also an ancient Indian religion. Buddhism developed out of Hinduism about 500 BCE. Sikhism came into existence in the sixteenth century CE as a result of both Hindu and Muslim influences. All these traditions have variations of the Golden Rule.<\/p>\n

The following Hindu quotations are from the Mahabharata<\/i>, written in classical Sanskrit about 300 CE:
\n“Do naught unto others (that) which would cause you pain if done to you.”<\/b> (Mahabharata, Bk. 5, Ch. 49, v. 57)<\/i><\/p>\n

“One should not behave towards others in a way which is disagreeable to oneself.”<\/b> (Mahabharata, Anusasana Parka 133.8)<\/i><\/p>\n

From Jainism:
\n“We should regard all creatures as we regard our own self.”<\/b> (Lord Mahavira, 24th Tirthankara)<\/i>
\n“A man should wander about treating all creatures as he himself would be treated.”<\/b> (Sutrakritanga 1.11.33)<\/i><\/p>\n

From Buddhism:
\n“Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful”<\/b> (Udana Varga 5:18)<\/i>
\n“…a state that is not pleasing or delightful to me, how could I inflict that upon another?”<\/b> (Samyutta Nikkei v.353)<\/i><\/p>\n

From Sikhism:
\n“As you deem yourself, deem others as well; only then will you become a partner in heaven”<\/b> (Guru Granth Sahib, p.480)<\/i><\/p>\n

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WEST ASIA<\/b>
\nIn West Asia, the Golden Rule can be traced to Zoroaster’s followers. Zoroaster was a philosopher who lived in Persia (present-day Iran) in the 600s BCE. The religion that developed from his teachings is called Zoroastrianism and this faith tradition continues to this day. Two renditions of the Golden Rule from Zoroastrianism are:
\n“… that nature alone is good which refrains from doing unto another whatsoever is not good for itself.”<\/b>(Dadistan-i-dinik 94:5)<\/i>
\n“Whatever is disagreeable to yourself, do not do unto others.”<\/b> (Shayast-na-Shayast 13:29)<\/i><\/p>\n

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HEBREW SCRIPTURES<\/b>
\nThe Hebrew Scriptures includes similar moral guidelines:
\n“You shall not take vengeance, or bear any grudge against the sons of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself.”<\/b> (Leviticus 19:18, RSV)<\/i><\/p>\n

Tobit (or Tobias)<\/i>\u2013written about 200 BCE\u2013was not included in the canon of Hebrew Scriptures, but it is included in the Roman Catholic and Orthodox Christian versions of the Old Testament. The author of Tobit 4:16<\/i> says:
\n“Do to no one what you would not want done to you.”<\/b> (The Jerusalem Bible, p. 528)<\/i><\/p>\n

In the first Century CE (the time of Jesus) Rabbi Hillel said:
\n“That which is despicable to you, do not do to your fellow man.”<\/b> (Babylonian Talmud, Shabbat 31a)<\/i><\/p>\n

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CHRISTIAN NEW TESTAMENT<\/b>
\nIn the Christian New Testament, Jesus is quoted as saying:
\n“So whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them.”<\/b> (Matthew 7:12, RSV)<\/i>
\n“And as you wish that men would do to you, do so to them.”<\/b> (Luke 6:31, RSV)<\/i>
\nThe unknown authors of Matthew and Luke both wrote their gospels about 80 CE.<\/p>\n

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ISLAM AND BAHA’I<\/b>
\nLater, one finds Golden Rule statements in Islam and the Baha’i religion. From the sacred writings of Islam which came into existence in the 600s CE:
\n“None of you believes until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself.”<\/b> (No. 13 of Imam al-Nawawi’s Forty Hadiths)<\/i>
\n“That which you want for yourself, seek for mankind.”<\/b> (Sukhanan-i-Muhammad, 63)<\/i><\/p>\n

Baha’u’llah, founder of the Baha’i faith in the 1800s CE, said:
\n“Lay not on any soul a load that you would not wish to be laid upon you, and desire not for anyone the things you would not desire for yourself.”<\/b> (Baha’u’llah, Gleanings)<\/i><\/p>\n

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NATIVE AMERICAN<\/b>
\nOne can find a number of sayings related to the Golden Rule in the Native American tradition. Here is one from the Northern Plains:
\n“Great Spirit, grant that I may not criticize my neighbor until I have walked a mile in his moccasins.”<\/b>(Sioux\/Lakota\/Plains Indians; Wattles, pp. 9, 194)<\/p>\n

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AFRICAN<\/b>
\nOne African variation of the Golden Rule is this Ba-Congo saying:
\n“O man, what you do not like, do not do to your fellows.”<\/b> (Wattles, p. 9)<\/p>\n

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When the Rule became the “Golden” Rule<\/h2>\n

“The Golden Rule” title itself seems to have come into general use in the early to middle 1800s in both England and the United States.<\/p>\n

Since ancient times, the word “golden” has been used to signify what is highly valued. To investigate this idea further, see the article: Discovering the “gold” in the Golden Rule\u00a0<\/i>at\u00a0http:\/\/www.scarboromissions.ca\/golden-rule\/discovering-the-gold-in-the-golden-rule<\/a><\/p>\n

Aristotle used the idea of the “golden mean” to indicate that moral virtue is found between two extremes. As examples, he said courage was a virtue that lay between cowardice and rashness; appropriate pride in one’s accomplishment was the virtue between undue humility and vanity. (Nicomachean Ethics, Book Two)<\/i><\/p>\n

However, apart from Aristotle’s “golden mean,” there seems to be no record of “golden” being used to refer to desired ways of behaving until the late 1600s. Then, in England in 1674, Robert Godfrey, an English physicist, wrote that, “Whilst forgetting that Golden Law, do as you would be done by, they make self the center of their actions.” (From Various injuries and abuses in chymical and galenical physick…detected<\/i> as found in the Oxford English Dictionary<\/i>, Oxford, England: Clartendon Press, Second Edition, 1989, Vol. 6, p. 656 and VOA. 20, p. 50)<\/p>\n

A couple of generations later, Isaac Watts spoke of “that golden principle of morality which the blessed Lord has given us.” (The Improvement of the mind<\/i> [written in 1771], Chapter 14, Sec. 8 as found in Oxford English Dictionary<\/i>, vol. 6, p. 856)<\/p>\n

THE USE OF THE “GOLDEN RULE” TERM<\/b><\/p>\n

In the early 1800s, the morality of “treating others as you would want to be treated if you were in their situation” was clearly reflected in the values of those working for the abolition of slavery and for the civil rights of African-Americans in the United States. The great American abolitionist and civil rights leader Frederick Douglass gave a speech in 1842 saying, “…Remember George Latimer in bonds as bound with him; keep in view the golden rule- ‘All things whatsoever ye would that men should do unto you, do ye even so unto them.'” (Mieder, Wolfgang, “No Struggle, No Progress”: Frederick Douglass and His Proverbial Rhetoric for Civil Rights<\/i>, 2001, Peter Lang Publishers, p. 185)<\/p>\n

Another early example of the title being used is “A Lesson From the Golden Rule” that appeared in the October 1853 issue of Godey’s Lady’s Book<\/i> magazine. Godey’s Lady’s Book was rather typical of a number of women’s publications of the time. Personal ethics and teaching children to be moral were two of the concerns of the magazine.<\/p>\n

In 1859, Charles Dickens used the term in a story called “The Battle of Life,” that follows “A Christmas Carol” in hisChristmas Books: Tales and Sketches<\/i>. (Nelson Doubleday, p. 228) Dickens uses the term in a satirical way. After a cleaning woman tells an upper class man that she tries to “Do as you-would-be-done-by,” he almost ridicules her by saying that she will find the opposite idea “to be the golden rule of half her clients.”<\/p>\n

A straightforward, non-fictional reference to the Golden Rule in England comes from John Stuart Mill’s book,Utilitarianism<\/i>, published in 1863. Mill says, “In the golden rule of Jesus of Nazareth, we read the complete spirit of the ethics of utility. To do as you would be done by, and to love your neighbor as yourself.” (The English Philosophers<\/i>, 1939, Random House, p. 908) Utilitarianism was a widely discussed philosophy of the 1800s.<\/p>\n

From this period onward, “golden rule” (uncapitalized) appears with increasing frequency. Charles Darwin used it inThe Descent of Man<\/i> published in 1871 (Chapter IV).<\/p>\n

AMERICAN SCHOOLS AND LITERATURE<\/b><\/p>\n

By the end of the 1870s, the Golden Rule had become a children’s textbook lesson in the United States. The 1879Revised Edition of McGuffey’s Fourth Eclectic Reader<\/i> had a story titled “The Golden Rule” (Lesson 51) that had been written years earlier by Emma Embury. These school texts were used by millions of children through to the end of the century and beyond. Harlow Unger, writing in the Encyclopedia of American Education<\/i>, claims that these school texts helped establish America’s central ethical ideals. And these texts are still in print. Some home-schooled students and others in private schools continue to study from them (1996, Facts On File, Inc.<\/i>, Vol. 11, p. 588).<\/p>\n

As the McGuffey Reader’s Golden Rule lesson was being distributed, notable American authors were also referring to the Golden Rule. William Dean Howells’ 1885 novel, The Rise of Silas Lapham<\/i>, is an example. Howells was a leading American writer and editor in the late 1800s and early 1900s. In his story, a man named Rogers tries to influence Silas, a business associate, in this manner:<\/p>\n

“Well, then, I want you to give me this chance to get on my feet again. You’ve no right to deprive me of it; it’s unchristian. In our dealings with each other we should be guided by the Golden Rule, as I was saying to Mrs. Lapham before you came in. I told her that if I knew myself, I should in your place consider the circumstances of a man in mine…” (Harpers’ Modern Classics Series<\/i>, 1958. New York: Harper and Brothers, p. 342)<\/p>\n

A final note<\/b>: During this general time period\u2013the early and middle 1800s\u2013the exact wording, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”, also became popular, apparently evolving out of folk tradition. Although many people assume that this way of stating the Golden Rule is ancient, even biblical, the phrase is not found in any classical reference or standard translation of the Bible.<\/p>\n

MORE BACKGROUND ON THE TERM, “GOLDEN RULE”<\/b><\/p>\n

As noted above, the “Golden Rule” title seems to have come into use during the two decades before the Civil War. One early reference we found was from a ladies’ magazine, Godey’s Lady’s Book<\/i>, October 1853, pp. 323-326.Godey’s<\/i> was a widely circulated monthly magazine of the time, which, like others of that period, focused on literature, fashion, songs, recipes and household hints. Its “Lesson From the Golden Rule” was written by Louis Godey and Sarah Hale (using Alice B. Neal as a pen name).<\/p>\n

Godey had purchased Hale’s ladies’ magazine in 1837 and persuaded her to become editor of his magazine. The title of Godey and Hale’s story seems to indicate that there had been previous Golden Rule stories. One of these apparently was “The Golden Rule,” a story written by Emma Embury. Students may be interested to know that Sarah Hale wrote the ever-popular children’s poem, “Mary Had a Little Lamb,” and she also convinced Abraham Lincoln to make Thanksgiving a national holiday.<\/p>\n

Before the Civil War, the Golden Rule was clearly relevant to the issue of slavery and the treatment of African-Americans in the United States. For example, in 1791, Jonathan Edwards preached a sermon on slavery and Matthew 7:12 from the New Testament (in which Jesus expresses a variation of the Golden Rule). However, Edwards did not refer to that verse as the “Golden Rule.” Rather, he spoke of “the general rule given us in the [Bible] text” and this “divine maxim.” (African American Odyssey online)<\/i>. The authors of this lesson found Frederick Douglass’s use of the term “Golden Rule” because his 1842 speech was published. Most abolitionist speeches were not recorded.<\/p>\n

After the Civil War, the Golden Rule phrase had become so well known that the short story entitled “The Golden Rule” was added to the 1879 edition of McGuffey’s Fourth Eclectic Reader<\/i>, as pointed out above. At that time William McGuffey had nothing to do with its insertion since he was no longer living but the publisher owned the right to use his name. The story itself had been written years previously by Emma Embury, a well-known writer and on the editorial staff of major women’s periodicals of her time, including Godey’s, Graham’s and The Ladies’ Companion<\/i>.<\/p>\n

Embury’s Golden Rule story dates from before 1850 since by that time “a serious illness [had] ended her writing career.” (American Women Writers: A Critical Guide from Colonial Times to the Present<\/i>, 1979, Lina Mainiero, Ed., Frederick Ungard Publishing Co., NY, Vol. 1, pp. 594-96) The publication in which her story originally appeared is not known to us.<\/p>\n

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Using the Golden Rule in difficult situations<\/h2>\n

The Golden Rule\u2013to treat people as you would want to be treated if you were in the other’s position<\/b>\u2013is easiest to use:<\/p>\n